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07-13-2007, 11:29 AM

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Originally Posted by Kakashi View Post
I don't get it. Why do people think long distance relationships are so bad? I'm in one right now. I love the guy more than anyone and anything. I'm willing to wait as long as it takes to meet him. I don't care how long, I'm getting myself over there one way or another.
Well I just..wonder how you are able to love someone only based on voice (phone) and errr text messages? Isn't there a big chance that the lack of physical contact (not just sex, but being able to feel, smell and taste the other. Being able to hold hands and walk in the park, etc.) becomes an obstacle. Something a local person can supply? Isn't the chance of 'cheating' really big? Is it realistic to expect someone to not seek something more physical? after one year? five? ten?

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Originally Posted by Kakashi View Post
So what if they're far away? Are you still not able to love because of that? It's like with age. Some people think you can be too young to fall in love. Why is that? Are you ever too young to feel?
According to your statement 2 yr old can fall in love? I think there is a certain level of self-awareness necessary to even realise that it's love you are experiencing and I think it requires a certain level of personal development to be able to sustain a love relationship. Both self awareness and personal development take time to grow...And I think it's at least questionable wether or not, say a 12 year old, meets both requirements...


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