My two cents . . .
OK people who live by the belief that all Love is selfish, I don't believe that. Such a thought process leads you to "sticking your middle finger to the world" And hating everything because you believe love makes you seem like a bad person and with nothing to value through love, feeling living only means sticking yourself in the evil poison would probably make one want to destroy it or just kill themselves.
But there is such a thing as too MUCH love such as Hitler and, not to pick on them, but the Whites several times in the past. Hitler loved only certain people so much, he wanted to get rid of people who did not fit the description. This is where love becomes selfish
So in conclusion, the people who say "Love is a delicate balance" are right! Love to feel purpouse and fufillment from life and to find pure happiness but at the same timelearn to accept and them appreciate, love and celebrate those different than you!
