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Originally Posted by Natoshin
Two of them did i ask out ....and sadly it ended at.. a:i have a bf which holy crap suprised the hell outta me cause she recently got one like a few days ago exactly when i asked and no one knew...T^T..... and b: The second one i asked...she just didnt even reply back to me about it even though I asked her why she didnt say anything back.Lets see if my memory correct me right five of them like me...and the ones did i ask were the ones that liked me...I mean i could kinda tell when i was around they act differently then other guys that are their friend that they knew well.This was lets see... *thinks* I think...4-5 months apart O.o...for each of the two I ask.But, like about a 1-2 weeks ago.. The 5th person I found out that like me, I asked them some questions directly if they did, I mean honestly if you know them well enough you dont have to beat around bush or be embarrased about telling them it..but it might take awhile to say xD.This one though even though she likes me completely lied about saying No and reasons and I can tell I been friends with her more then a year and during the time I knew her she had no bf what so ever nor did she like any guy.When I knew she was lying I just went along with it,but still stayed around and sadly "eavesdropping" without them knowing,yes I know bad to do that but I had to hear a particular conversation of the one i asked and a closed friend of her that I was just friends with nothing more.Seems She has a whole different reason but didnt wanna tell me then next thing you know Im disliked or maybe hated for alittle by her and i barely know why even tried asking her why...she just gives me a cute glare xD....and walks off.Theres a time and place to keep going at it but the way it was I shouldnt ask any farther or it'll annoy the heck outta her.SO thats about it...2 i asked out...1 I ask if I had a chance with them...says some stuff that could make a guy happy but dont go any farther cause of unknown reason..1 I ask if they liked me but lied and all of a sudden dislikes me or maybe hate alittle bit...so thats about it for what you asked me.BASICALLY: all 4 was a complete failure v(T^T)v I have one girl left to ask or such but...yea...I wanna find out the reason and such before going to the last one.Which I hope to make it worth the time of my effort and that it works out.
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ok, generally from experience ino that u shud never assume someone likes u just becoz they act different towards you, there could be a number of reasons for that and not until u hear it from the person themselves should you ever think, yeah they really fancy me. i remember a guy in college who i had the same feeling about and it turned out he had a GF for 6 years at the time, so you need to hear it from them before u come to that conclusion,
- second if a girl says she doesnt like u or has a BF or likes someone else its usually our way of saying we dont want to take it any further
sorry
if they were making excuses then more then likely they dont want to take it further
- thridly, i wouldnt ask girls out one after the other becoz the girl world is a very small one and if something happens to one girl (ie she gets asked out by a guy) the rest of them will know within a day or two - news like that spreads like wild fire - and if a girl realises that u have asked out another girl just a few weeks b4 even she will most defo say no, just coz every girl wants to feel like the guy whose asking her out wants her and her alone and not just a GF in general - ie. you keep asking till one says yes and not coz ur mad about them
-if i found out some guy had been asking a few of my friends out b4 me or even other girls that i didnt know and he then came to me i would turn him down for sure even if i was mad about him
-lastly i wouldnt ask the final girl out myself, get a close friend of yours to ask her how she feels about you and if she could ever take it further in general conversation, that saves u any trouble and its just easier,
sorry if the answer was a bit harsh but that just my take on the situation
but if the close friends dont become GF's dont fret its usually better to go with an outsider sometimes coz they wont come into the relationship with any pre judgements, hope it helps!