[ryuurui]

you know, the fault is always on both sides. sometimes there is none, people just do not fit and are too scared or too lazy to admit it.

Yeah see, it works like that, if you ignore someone they tend to care more (ironic isnt it), as they wonder if they have become unattractive. In your case it is being busy, which doesnt mean you ignore another person. Just need someone that is supportive for whatever dreams you may have. Relationship is like friendship, another person is happy when your dreams come true.
And soulmates are hard to find.