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04-19-2011, 12:41 PM

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Originally Posted by missprincess View Post
if youve ever been rejected by something or someone in your life, how well did you or do you deal with it?

because i recently got turned down for a job and its seriously annoying me! so just wanted to know how other people deal with it.

thanks
peace!

Hi miss. It was not a rejection, simply it was not for you . I always believe that things happen for a reason, so even though you might feel down, there might be something waiting for you in the near future, much better than this offer. Don't kick yourself, just move on. I am a perfectionist myself and I know how painful it can be, but if you sincerely have done all you could to achieve something and it failed, it means it really was not for you. Pushing harder towards the same direction will get you nowhere, you will only become more frustrated. So, just forget about it and have an ice cream or some wild shagg on the beach, and it wil level itself out.
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