Er, okay - sorry, but I realized that getting into fights on Internet forums definitely isn't worth my time or my energy.

MUCH LOVE. :rheart:

In other words, you're just wanting the last word, but have no way to respectfully do it, because you got severely defeated in the debate?
They're not fighting, at least, Ms. Nyo isn't.
You just got corrected.

I wouldn't know. I didn't read anything that they wrote. Because - well, like I said, it's not worth my energy. I realized it after I started speaking to others about the responses and showed others the forum. They said that the forum is wonderful for getting advice about Japan, but that the people on it are too ignorant and rude to take seriously in these debates. I agreed.

Once again, much love. Seriously.

Congratulations, mercedesjin! You just posted the most rude and arrogant post I have ever read on Japan forums. And trust me, that is saying something.

I'm beginning to see that having a facepalm gif in your sig is a very useful forum device, MMM. :)

Yeah...quite the post mercedesjin. If you don't like reading anything not written by you, you could always ignore the hundreds of other forum IDs in JF. Doing that may take a while.

The ready made face-palm is always there when I need it. Too bad the OP never came back to see what a monster he created.

omg
i love you for saying that <3
its what i meant when i said i generally find south east asian boys attractive
and i get accused of being racist ..
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its not like i wouldnt date someone of other races
people who do that are weird
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That was a weak response.
Sad you had to do that.
They took you seriously.
And I see no attacks onto you- just disagreements.
And they were more respectful than you.
You just want the last word, and want to sound intelligent when you sound more garbled up than former President Bush would while drunk.

You've shown more ignorance, actually.
Please, take a closer look to what you put out here.
If you still think you're in the right, I'm afraid I would pity what you possibly teach others.

This is like a bunch of genius 5 year olds arguing nuclear physics.

Complete with all caps tantrums, namecalling, and 'ignoring'

I'm going to ignore you and have the last word. Every.Time. :DDD

Hahahaha

I say something that is very hard to attack and I am ignored. I wasn`t "arguing", nor was I writing in anger. I wrote very clearly why your opinion and theory doesn`t always apply. Very convenient time to suddenly decide you want nothing to do with "arguing on the internet", don`t you think?

I think Kayci hit it perfectly on the head. You have to be the winner, so if it looks like there is a chance someone might actually "win" the debate other than you, you run. Incredibly childish, and shows just the type of person you are.

Let's start again!

I am attracted to Asian/Japanese women as they tend to have nice slim figures.

I do enjoy a nice medium sized breast size and I do enjoy a lady who is polite.

I find that many a western gal tends to be BIG, not her fault as the oily foods, chocoalte, neglect of the body and over eating are all to blame, although they generally have a mouth to match!

I'm not speaking on behalf of all western or Asian girls, but rather in general.

Some guys like big girls, I don't.

By the way, did you happen to find the opinion maker to meet up with and buy them a drink or coffee?

For the record, I was messing with you XD

I guess that would make you a shallow racist in some people's opinion. (You know I'm joking I hope, I agree with your opinion):ywave:

I think my brain exploded.

i think that respecting someone's color or creed is different from getting to have an actual relationship w/ the person, so, although most people say they don't feel any kind of prejudice from japanese in terms of color i still think they wouldn't make out w/ a black person. i dunno.

where you were raised has a strong impact on your values and ethics as well as culture and customs. an inter-racial relationship will have more culture differences than one where both parties have the same country of origin.

all of my relationships has been inter-racial because i grew up in an area where it was hard to find other asians. in all of my relationships, i always noticed there were very basic differences between us that were irreconcilable.

for example, in my latest relationship, my ex said if we ever had kids we would not be paying for their college. that completely goes against everything i've been taught about being a good parent. my parents paid for my college and is continuing to help fund my master's. in my family, even if i was 40 something and was having financial problems, my parents would be available to help me.

another difference is that whole last name business. i'm very proud of my last name and my ex was very proud of his. if i ever got married i would not be changing my last name. he was very offended by this.

these small yet important cultures differences have basically wrecked all of my relationships.

I prefer foreign people to white. I'm not exactly sure why, but they're just more attractive in my eyes. I can find a white person attractive, but it rarely happens.

I think the same as Nan. though all I've had up to this point are relationships with white guys, though for me it's not just any type of foreigner, nor necessarily a foreigner at all. (there are many Asian people here in Minnesota.)Just specifically Asians on a whole I find much more attractive.

Um, well I guess being a Black (American) woman who is a little heavy set just doesn't win with the Asians. -_-;;

I USED to be very attracted to Asian men, but because of the way I look... 1) Not Caucasian nor Asian 2) Not skinny as a rail I just got the short end of the stick. Maybe it was my self-consciousness that stopped me from making an idiot of myself and talking to a guy. Where I am now usually Asian males are with white women or with another Asian woman. I normally see Asian women with a Black male but not the other way around. Being frustrated for years about this, I just gave up and said "Screw it."


Ah oh well, life goes on without getting what you want. -Shrugs-

Let's stop with the sweeping comments and racial profiling. Each individual person has his or her own tastes. Many many many people with dark skin have found love with both men and women from Japan. So enough of this.

As long a a girl is hot, I'm attracted (sexually) whatever her race is.

That's the best way, don't single out or discriminate against races. We are born to experience and sample so why not cast the net wide?

Same here.
I happen to lean more towards certain ethnicity but not because of their ethnicity but because they tend to poses more inner (personality) and physical characteristics that I find attractive. So what it really comes down to for me is chance and probability, who I'm just more likely to end up with.

Pertaining to this topic (which is staring to get old) here's a video that I think explains it in a funny way:
YouTube - Yellow Fever

Haha... That video was really funny and well made.

Haha, I thought so too! ^^

Its funny but true at the part when the guy says "you don't get the girl because you have very small.. confidence".

dont see what so "special" about being attracted to someone outside your "race" or whatever you call, even though i only date people outside mine own. but its just like anyother relationship

Interracial Intimacies.
 

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South Asian and East Asian mixed relationships
 

Hi just saw this, I'm interested to know how your research went? I'm in London and find there are many mixed relationships but I've heard it's not so common in Japan especially South Asian women and Japanese men, do you have any research on this? :):confused: