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View Poll Results: Which do you think is the cause of cheating?
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02-24-2008, 02:48 PM

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Love to hear evidence on that...but regardless, cheating is a sign of immaturity. Don't commit if you can't commit.
People who cheat are obviously unsatisfied with their love/sex life, they're victims, not offenders.


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People who cheat are obviously unsatisfied with their love/sex life, they're victims, not offenders.
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02-24-2008, 07:25 PM

For the same reason women cheat.



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People who cheat are obviously unsatisfied with their love/sex life, they're victims, not offenders.
if they're unsatisfied with their love/sex life then all they have to do is leave their unsatisfying relationship & find a new one that will work for them. they're both a victim & an offender because they fail to realize that the person they committed to is going to get hurt. when a relationship doesn't work out, both of the people in it suffer. it's the least they could do to remember that.



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12-20-2008, 07:55 PM

It does not matter if it is a man or woman that cheats, they are just selfish. They don't care if they hurt the person they are with.
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12-20-2008, 08:04 PM

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Love to hear evidence on that...but regardless, cheating is a sign of immaturity. Don't commit if you can't commit.
You're immature.

How can someone be immature from an emotion that comes from your core structure. Social communities around the globe brainwash people by saying how cheating is bad, trying to emphasises an importance in the humans.

Truth be told; we are animals and therefore reproduce to secure our gene pool.

People keep a bond if they feel like their offspring and partners are strong, reliable and all that. However, cheat/separated if they are unsatisfied or whatever pressure they feel.

Did you know that once you have offsprings you age faster? Natural selection renders you obsolete and therefore disposes of you quickly.

There's a famous saying:

"Nature is ruthless and has no morals"

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12-20-2008, 08:28 PM

It's not just men, women cheat too.

But I think, no matter who you are, cheating is messed up. Don't cheat! If you're that unhappy with someone than break up with them. Don't hurt them like that.
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12-20-2008, 08:38 PM

Cheating is a cowards way out. If you have made a conscious decision to be unfaithful to your partner, you are NOT a victim. If you are so unhappy in your relationship, then end it. In the long run, it is kinder than just going off with someone else on a whim. Of course, everybody makes mistakes - honesty is the best policy in these cases. But with long running affairs, lies, and going behind peoples backs... it's just unkind and not needed.

I think the reasons people cheat once is mostly a mistake. Too much to drink, spur of the moment, 'human nature.' Maybe you could forgive a person for that, maybe you couldn't. But if it goes on longer and you are fully aware of what your doing, I think that's just nasty.
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12-20-2008, 08:44 PM

I agree with MissMisa >.< if you continue doing that...it's just disgusting. I hate when people cheat and then they blame the person THEY cheated on and was like "Well, they were making me unhappy." Umm..okay o.O then leave them! Duh! If you continously cheat on someone then I think that you need to get smacked around a little.
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