Your Opinion in marriage ??

[Naoko]

Originally Posted by Nyororin

*(Student marriage, interracial marriage, overseas marriage, very young marriage, long term hospitalization, disabled child, etc etc etc)

Wow...bless your heart for standing strong in all that.

[Bureda]

Originally Posted by MissMisa

I don't wanna get married. Just a waste of time/money. There is no way in hell I'm ever changing my last name.

Awww, how cute.

[reihiino]

Not totally against it. But...i dunno...the thought of a commitment scares me right now...yes i know that there are people who are sick of hearing that excuse when they themselves are in a relationship or are already married. but this is how i've felt for a long time. I can honestly say that right now I am fine being single. If in the future I do meet the one & then maybe yes i would get married. But I'm not holding my breath for it.

[Bureda]

Originally Posted by reihiino

Not totally against it. But...i dunno...the thought of a commitment scares me right now...yes i know that there are people who are sick of hearing that excuse when they themselves are in a relationship or are already married. but this is how i've felt for a long time. I can honestly say that right now I am fine being single. If in the future I do meet the one & then maybe yes i would get married. But I'm not holding my breath for it.

Will you bare my children?

[CarleyGee]

If you're planning on being with them forever, why not get married?
Though at the same time, what's the point?

I have too many views on this, haha.

[superheel]

Being married to the one you really love is the best.

[Eiri]

I've thought of the M word, but I've never had the dream of getting married. I'd be fine to just live with him (whom ever it may be)as a couple. I he asks me to marry him then I'd say yeah (after thinking about it...which would probably cause him to worry)

[xYinniex]

haha, I don't even have an opinion on dating at the moment, let alone marriage XD.

But i'm thinking
free love then marriage?
thats what most people go through anyways.

[Arikado]

Marriage doesn't constitute true love. I see too many kids these days whose parents are divorced because the parents made the wrong, ill-judged decision to marry each other and have children. Or they made that decision over some stupid reason, thinking it was the only option to get themselves out of whatever mess they were in. Marriage does not magically solve problems. I know this from family experience, so don't think I don't know what I'm talking about.
Just because you think you love somebody a lot, it doesn't mean you're ready for marriage, and it doesn't mean that you'll be any happier.

Now don't go thinking that I don't like the idea of marriage. I think marriage is the ultimate step in life and is a great thing for two people who truly love each other, no matter race, sex, or age, to find solace and to spend the rest of their lives together. It's a beautiful thing. But don't take advantage of it.

As for multiple relationships at the same time: If you're a player, fine, go for it. I'm not going to say anything against it because everyone has their opinion of their idea lifestyle and nothing I say is gonna change that anyway. But personally, I don't agree with it. I think if I knew that my girlfriend was hitting on other guys, or was in other relationships, I'd be OUT in the blink of an eye. It's just lack of respect is all it is.

[superheel]

Originally Posted by Arikado

Marriage doesn't constitute true love. I see too many kids these days whose parents are divorced because the parents made the wrong, ill-judged decision to marry each other and have children. Or they made that decision over some stupid reason, thinking it was the only option to get themselves out of whatever mess they were in. Marriage does not magically solve problems. I know this from family experience, so don't think I don't know what I'm talking about.
Just because you think you love somebody a lot, it doesn't mean you're ready for marriage, and it doesn't mean that you'll be any happier.

Now don't go thinking that I don't like the idea of marriage. I think marriage is the ultimate step in life and is a great thing for two people who truly love each other, no matter race, sex, or age, to find solace and to spend the rest of their lives together. It's a beautiful thing. But don't take advantage of it.

As for multiple relationships at the same time: If you're a player, fine, go for it. I'm not going to say anything against it because everyone has their opinion of their idea lifestyle and nothing I say is gonna change that anyway. But personally, I don't agree with it. I think if I knew that my girlfriend was hitting on other guys, or was in other relationships, I'd be OUT in the blink of an eye. It's just lack of respect is all it is.

Divorce is the problem. As long as it's legal, then married couple will always have the choice of seperating because they can do it legally.