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01-04-2009, 06:23 AM

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I have one rule. I don't date friends, unless there's such a HUGE mutual love between us. And by reading your age, and the surroundings and feelings you have, it isn't love. You're infatuated. So even if she does like you, don't take the chance. You'll only break up later, and then you'll lose her.

Asking her out, or confessing will only destroy your relationship. Let it go, and forget about her that way and be friends.

You will get nothing out by confessing to her. Don't.
This is true, I've seen this happen to friends. Sad but true.



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01-04-2009, 06:49 AM

Damn, and I thought you were refering to Sweeney Todd...

Anyway, about your friend. Tell this person how you feel-- not suddenly and not too discreetly or else this person will get the wrong idea.

What would make a cute scenario I can imagine from a film... One day she gets really upset and you somehow sweep her off her feet and make life a trillion times better... awwh ♥


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01-04-2009, 01:40 PM

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Damn, and I thought you were refering to Sweeney Todd...

Anyway, about your friend. Tell this person how you feel-- not suddenly and not too discreetly or else this person will get the wrong idea.

What would make a cute scenario I can imagine from a film... One day she gets really upset and you somehow sweep her off her feet and make life a trillion times better... awwh ♥
Life isn't a film.


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01-05-2009, 06:04 PM

I'm afraid you've been in that friendship phase for too long. If you confess your feelings to her, you're only going to create a rift between you and her.

Whenever I meet a girl who I'm really attracted to, I'll usually make a move within the first 3 dates. Otherwise, I risk entering that friendship zone. This is especially true when dealing with Japanese girls. They rarely reveal their cards so it's up to you to take that initiative.
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