When you love someone who doesn't love you back...

[Aniki]

Nobody should give any advice when so little information is given. For all we know the OP could be a 40-year-old pedo who's in love with 14-year-old girl/boy or vice versa.

[bELyVIS]

While it is difficult to move on something better always comes along.

[IamKira]

Originally Posted by NanteNa

Okay, guys. Here I'm referring to IAmKira, JoshAussie and ozkai.-
If you cannot comment to a thread properly, please don't comment at all. This whole 'making fun of everything' is getting INCREDIBLY annoying.

i don't make fun of serious issues
I have been through the same sh&^ this guy is going through many times over.. too many to count
i was answering how i felt it should be handled
just because it doesn't sit in your realm of standards in thought doesn't mean anything... i don't sit well with the norms.. you know that... i simply gave a viable option for the op
you have to understand that the world is not all goody goody... there are people who really do think the way i have been talking of late.. and to be honest, if i needed to i could shed all my good nature as boot up an operating system that would turn me into the coldest, most calculating sob you ever saw and that is what you saw in those posts

but right now, i am running my "unicorn's and love" operating system; my compassionate side so i will apologize if i made you upset which i obviously have
I'm sorry to you and the op

[TalnSG]

Originally Posted by JoshAussie

You're "INCREDIBLY" annoying, why is your opinion worth more than ours? You don't have any right to criticize other peoples opinions, I am not sure what make's you think that you do.

If you feel this is wrong, please provide me with information which states that your opinion is worth more than that of others.

If not, please "stfu" Thank you.

As annoying as NanteNa's criticism of you may be, you cannot question the right to criticize in a post where you are doing likewise.

Not everyone appreciates people who rack up post in the manner she is referring to, but most of us exercise restraint as long as possible before adding to the unnecessary side discussions. She just reached her tolerance limit sooner than the rest.

[NanteNa]

Originally Posted by JoshAussie

You're "INCREDIBLY" annoying, why is your opinion worth more than ours? You don't have any right to criticize other peoples opinions, I am not sure what make's you think that you do.

If you feel this is wrong, please provide me with information which states that your opinion is worth more than that of others.

If not, please "stfu" Thank you.

I never claimed that my opinion is worth more than yours. But flaming each other and making fun of the thread is not cool. And I'm not criticizing your opinions. I'm criticizing your way of sharing it with others. Keep the tone decent.

Don't push it, pal.. and DO NOT tell me to stfu.

Originally Posted by IamKira

i don't make fun of serious issues
I have been through the same sh&^ this guy is going through many times over.. too many to count
i was answering how i felt it should be handled
just because it doesn't sit in your realm of standards in thought doesn't mean anything... i don't sit well with the norms.. you know that... i simply gave a viable option for the op
you have to understand that the world is not all goody goody... there are people who really do think the way i have been talking of late.. and to be honest, if i needed to i could shed all my good nature as boot up an operating system that would turn me into the coldest, most calculating sob you ever saw and that is what you saw in those posts

but right now, i am running my "unicorn's and love" operating system; my compassionate side so i will apologize if i made you upset which i obviously have
I'm sorry to you and the op

Uhh, right.. O_ô I'm not sure what you're trying to say.
This is not ''THE WORLD''. This is JapanForum. I'm a mod of JapanForum - not the world. I'm well aware that the world is not perfect or, as you put it, ''goody goody'', but we have rules on here - and if you cannot stick to those.. I suggest you find somewhere else to play. Encouraging people to go for people against their will is just plain stupid with a twist of insane. I accept the fact that you have an opinion.. but sometimes you're just REALLY creepy.

[TalnSG]

Originally Posted by mysteryman

What do you do? Im in a situation like that now and I don't know what to do, its the worst feeling in the world.

If you truly love someone, you respect what they feel is best for them. In other words, keep it to yourself, let them move on, and you do the same.

If you are on the receiving end of unwanted affection, you thank them for their affection, explain your feelings and ask them to respect your decision. If they persue you after that, you either see that you don't encounter them again, or you get a restraining order from the local court.

[WhoIsDaffy]

Originally Posted by TalnSG

If you truly love someone, you respect what they feel is best for them. In other words, keep it to yourself, let them move on, and you do the same.

its attitudes like this,

that lead to people have ugly, fat, uninteresting, moronic wives.
and then go abouts cheating on them.

also if you say this
you dont know love
and you are so out of your field of knowledge you just stop reading this thread alltogether.

someone says they want some advice to get a girl, who they "love"
and your advice is

be a fail like me, just give up.

thats your advice? really?

the taln guide to success:
try once, then give up

LOLZ - lurve n00b

[TalnSG]

Originally Posted by WhoIsDaffy

its attitudes like this,

that lead to people have ugly, fat, uninteresting, moronic wives.
and then go abouts cheating on them.

also if you say this
you dont know love
and you are so out of your field of knowledge you just stop reading this thread alltogether.

someone says they want some advice to get a girl, who they "love"
and your advice is

be a fail like me, just give up.

thats your advice? really?

the taln guide to success:
try once, then give up

LOLZ - lurve n00b

And your response reads like a stalker's or at best a wounded puppy dog following around at someone's heels.

[WhoIsDaffy]

Originally Posted by WhoIsDaffy

I would recomend a classic "take away" manouver.

be sure you are cool, funny, interesting etc. around her
but start to keep your distance.

we always want what we cannot have nes paux?

Yea total stalker stuff that!

*ahem* muppet

just cos you fall into the catagory of
"d1ckless wonder" don't try to draw inoocents into your group.

[NanteNa]

I'd have to agree with Taln on this.

A confession of love is usually just taken as a 'sweet thing to say' to a person who doesn't feel the same way about you.

If you don't accept the person saying that they don't like you the same way back, and you keep going for it, they will just get annoyed and most likely block you out. Just speaking from experience. An admirer is nice, cute and all those good things - unless he/she does NOT understand a firm 'No'.

It's better to let it go and get over it.
This is real life - not Pretty Woman, based on a happy-end.