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CarleyGee 10-07-2008 11:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Pyro (Post 603775)
I'll second that, I believe the samething. Person have the right to do what they want with their life's, as long as they don't take others with them.

I'll be a third.
Though I would wish they wouldn't.
But take others with you, and that just doubles the wrong.

Pyro 10-07-2008 11:26 PM

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Originally Posted by CarleyGee (Post 603777)
I'll be a third.
Though I would wish they wouldn't.
But take others with you, and that just doubles the wrong.

Their are ways to help those with great depression, people that normally commit suidide are people who never seek help or never have anyone willing to help. I wish they didn't too, but it's their choice, let them do it if they please.

CarleyGee 10-07-2008 11:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Pyro (Post 603790)
Their are ways to help those with great depression, people that normally commit suidide are people who never seek help or never have anyone willing to help. I wish they didn't too, but it's their choice, let them do it if they please.

Though people who commit suicide can sometimes be really confused and deep down they don't want to, it's a spur of the moment act.

I think it calls for being aware of those around you, and if you see a problem, you
could offer your help, though I would be prepared to be turned down.
People don't like admitting they have a problem.

Pyro 10-07-2008 11:38 PM

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Originally Posted by CarleyGee (Post 603797)
Though people who commit suicide can sometimes be really confused and deep down they don't want to, it's a spur of the moment act.

I think it calls for being aware of those around you, and if you see a problem, you
could offer your help, though I would be prepared to be turned down.
People don't like admitting they have a problem.

I know what's up with that? I have friend whose mother is a heavy drinker and a smoker (seriously I haven't seen her once without a beer in her hand.) Feel bad for her but everytime I try talking to her, she denies her problems. Plus everytime I see her she always says something negative about me -.-' lol

CarleyGee 10-07-2008 11:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Pyro (Post 603806)
I know what's up with that? I have friend whose mother is a heavy drinker and a smoker (seriously I haven't seen her once without a beer in her hand.) Feel bad for her but everytime I try talking to her, she denies her problems. Plus everytime I see her she always says something negative about me -.-' lol

I think the key is slyly giving advice in different context. : D

Uriko 10-07-2008 11:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Pyro (Post 603790)
Their are ways to help those with great depression, people that normally commit suidide are people who never seek help or never have anyone willing to help. I wish they didn't too, but it's their choice, let them do it if they please.

you have to keep in mind though that, sometimes, it's not their choice either.

like i said in a previous post, depression can be genetic & stuff.

sometimes, they don't even know their depressed.

it's entirely situational.

people who are depressed 'cause they think it's "cool" or because they're "brats" & they take for granted what they have? ugh. :mad:

irregardless of how or why though, i do think that people should try, at least once, to help those who are depressed. it's up to them (those who are depressive) to choose whether they want to accept or reject your offer.

CarleyGee 10-07-2008 11:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Uriko (Post 603811)
you have to keep in mind though that, sometimes, it's not their choice either.

like i said in a previous post, depression can be genetic & stuff.

sometimes, they don't even know their depressed.

it's entirely situational.

people who are depressed 'cause they think it's "cool" or because they're "brats" & they take for granted what they have? ugh. :mad:

irregardless of how or why though, i do think that people should try, at least once, to help those who are depressed. it's up to them (those who are depressive) to choose whether they want to accept or reject your offer.

I agree, I can't remember exactly, but I've read up on it.
Something to do with the chemicals not being sent to a certain part of your
brain, or there are too many chemicals being sent.
I'm not sure anymore :/

Brats, ugh, seriously.....

Pyro 10-08-2008 12:06 AM

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Originally Posted by Uriko (Post 603811)
you have to keep in mind though that, sometimes, it's not their choice either.

like i said in a previous post, depression can be genetic & stuff.

sometimes, they don't even know their depressed.

it's entirely situational.

people who are depressed 'cause they think it's "cool" or because they're "brats" & they take for granted what they have? ugh. :mad:

irregardless of how or why though, i do think that people should try, at least once, to help those who are depressed. it's up to them (those who are depressive) to choose whether they want to accept or reject your offer.

Your right, forgot about that. I'm thinking of going into psychology (though it's a pretty hard major '<<) just because it's interesting to see how the mind works. I've seen people who act emo, because they think it's in style (saw that a lot in high school -.-') and I want to hit them upside their head. It's so stupid.

Uriko 10-08-2008 12:16 AM

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Originally Posted by CarleyGee (Post 603821)
I agree, I can't remember exactly, but I've read up on it.
Something to do with the chemicals not being sent to a certain part of your
brain, or there are too many chemicals being sent.
I'm not sure anymore :/

Brats, ugh, seriously.....

increased levels of serotonin & decreased levels of norepinephrine.
or a dysfuntion in its reuptake.

brats are twice as worse when they complain about how no one cares about them & then when you try to help them out they'll go "you don't know what it's like to be me! you'll never understand! leave me alone..!" :rolleyes:

Uriko 10-08-2008 12:17 AM

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Originally Posted by Pyro (Post 603828)
Your right, forgot about that. I'm thinking of going into psychology (though it's a pretty hard major '<<) just because it's interesting to see how the mind works. I've seen people who act emo, because they think it's in style (saw that a lot in high school -.-') and I want to hit them upside their head. It's so stupid.

yeah. people who are emo over shallow things. *slap slap*

their species somehow still manage to survive in the college environment. just a heads up.

Nyororin 10-08-2008 12:21 AM

I`m far far too late to this discussion... But I`ll drop my opinion on certain things, as I haven`t spotted them covered in a quick skim through the countless posts in here.

In my mind, angst is more an issue than straight out suicide. It seems, in my experience, that angst is not only accepted - but almost encouraged - in the US. On the other hand, angst is hardly an issue in Japan.
In the US, teenagers are far more likely to whine and talk about being depressed wanting to commit suicide, etc... Even if they really aren`t going to. But in Japan, if someone is going to do it they do it quietly without fanfare. You don`t see kids running around moping and whining at anywhere near the level in the US. Someone who is would be considered "dark" and odd and would make people uncomfortable. This is a stark contrast to the social groups which seem to make "dark" and moping a central point in the US.

ivi0nk3y 10-08-2008 12:25 AM

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Originally Posted by Nyororin (Post 603842)
I`m far far too late to this discussion... But I`ll drop my opinion on certain things, as I haven`t spotted them covered in a quick skim through the countless posts in here.

In my mind, angst is more an issue than straight out suicide. It seems, in my experience, that angst is not only accepted - but almost encouraged - in the US. On the other hand, angst is hardly an issue in Japan.
In the US, teenagers are far more likely to whine and talk about being depressed wanting to commit suicide, etc... Even if they really aren`t going to. But in Japan, if someone is going to do it they do it quietly without fanfare. You don`t see kids running around moping and whining at anywhere near the level in the US. Someone who is would be considered "dark" and odd and would make people uncomfortable. This is a stark contrast to the social groups which seem to make "dark" and moping a central point in the US.

Alright so what about how teens are portrayed in some Japanese media. Are rebel teens popular or few and far between? Or are most of them the type to go to school, come home, do pilates etc.

Pyro 10-08-2008 12:25 AM

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Originally Posted by Uriko (Post 603839)
increased levels of serotonin & decreased levels of norepinephrine.
or a dysfuntion in its reuptake.

brats are twice as worse when they complain about how no one cares about them & then when you try to help them out they'll go "you don't know what it's like to be me! you'll never understand! leave me alone..!" :rolleyes:

rofl for real do they really think that it's cool or something? Don't know much about genetics and depression, got to study that up sometime. Chemicals obviously can affect a person's emotions as well.

Pyro 10-08-2008 12:29 AM

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Originally Posted by Uriko (Post 603840)
yeah. people who are emo over shallow things. *slap slap*

their species somehow still manage to survive in the college environment. just a heads up.

-.-' what the hell, nuuuuuuuz. Tought people might get a little more mature in college. O well. lol

Nyororin 10-08-2008 12:40 AM

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Originally Posted by ivi0nk3y (Post 603846)
Alright so what about how teens are portrayed in some Japanese media. Are rebel teens popular or few and far between? Or are most of them the type to go to school, come home, do pilates etc.

Rebel teens are interesting in media because they aren`t the norm. They aren`t a main slice of the population. They`re popular in media because they show what some kids wish they had the courage to do - not because they`d really do so. Just like it`s fun to watch crazed action, but it isn`t really what you`d ever choose to do in your own life.
Most really are the type who go to school, go to club, come home, study, sleep, then repeat.

Uriko 10-08-2008 12:46 AM

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Originally Posted by Nyororin (Post 603842)
I`m far far too late to this discussion... But I`ll drop my opinion on certain things, as I haven`t spotted them covered in a quick skim through the countless posts in here.

In my mind, angst is more an issue than straight out suicide. It seems, in my experience, that angst is not only accepted - but almost encouraged - in the US. On the other hand, angst is hardly an issue in Japan.
In the US, teenagers are far more likely to whine and talk about being depressed wanting to commit suicide, etc... Even if they really aren`t going to. But in Japan, if someone is going to do it they do it quietly without fanfare. You don`t see kids running around moping and whining at anywhere near the level in the US. Someone who is would be considered "dark" and odd and would make people uncomfortable. This is a stark contrast to the social groups which seem to make "dark" and moping a central point in the US.

what if the occurence of angst in Japan & the US are the same, just expressed differently?

Nyororin 10-08-2008 12:55 AM

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Originally Posted by Uriko (Post 603863)
what if the occurence of angst in Japan & the US are the same, just expressed differently?

The occurrence isn`t the issue. It`s the glamorization of it, to an extent. In Japan, it`s considered normal for parents and kids to not always agree... But in the US, it seems like it`s considered normal for teenagers to be downright crazy and to be beyond any sort of comprehension by adults. Japan doesn`t share that view.

MMM 10-08-2008 12:59 AM

Families are different in Japan. Japanese kids, in my experience, don't "hate" their parents, run away from home or believe everyone is out to get them at nearly the same rates as I saw working in an American high school.

Uriko 10-08-2008 01:03 AM

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Originally Posted by Nyororin (Post 603871)
The occurrence isn`t the issue. It`s the glamorization of it, to an extent. In Japan, it`s considered normal for parents and kids to not always agree... But in the US, it seems like it`s considered normal for teenagers to be downright crazy and to be beyond any sort of comprehension by adults. Japan doesn`t share that view.

in regards to your previous post, it just seemed that you were implying that angst was more common in the US because kids whine & say they commit suicide, whilst in Japan it's less common because kids don't express it the same way. all i'm saying is that there could be tons of kids in Japan who are angsty & they express is differently.

maybe they don't commit suicide & whine. maybe they just drop out of school or can't hold a job.

as for the glamorization of it, then yeah. kids are very outspoken because America is a "free country" & we all have "rights" & kids are raised with that mentality & they twist it to their spoiled rotten bidding.


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