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KikiBunny23 03-02-2009 10:44 PM

I have cut many times but only bled from it once when I used a shaving razor (no pain until after it's done) though I know a lot of people that have/do cut.Though the 'emo' kids at my school don't cut its the 'preps'

burkhartdesu 03-02-2009 10:47 PM

ANYONE who talks about and openly admits the fact that they're cutting are fishing for compassion...

It seems to me that if someone was cutting because they were truly depressed, they wouldn't go around talking about it.


...Especially on JapanForum.

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Originally Posted by KikiBunny23 (Post 680378)
when I used a shaving razor (no pain until after it's done)

Giving tips? O_o


And seriously, what problems do "preps" have-- besides the fact that people won't recognize them for their cuts??

MissMisa 03-02-2009 10:49 PM

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Originally Posted by burkhartdesu (Post 680380)
ANYONE who talks about and openly admits the fact that they're cutting are fishing for compassion...

It seems to me that if someone was cutting because they were truly depressed, they wouldn't go around talking about it.


...Especially on JapanForum.

To be honest this is something I have said before. I agree.

I don't really understand the whole concept, but for it to become a fashion trend is beyond me...

Though I am not claiming that anyone in this thread is wrong/lying, I do think that people with a real problem with this are unlikely to post so openly.

burkhartdesu 03-02-2009 10:51 PM

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Originally Posted by MissMisa (Post 680381)
Though I am not claiming that anyone in this thread is wrong/lying, I do think that people with a real problem with this are unlikely to post so openly.

Agreed.

And this is where the thread should end... I don't condone massaging peoples ego.

KikiBunny23 03-02-2009 11:04 PM

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Originally Posted by burkhartdesu (Post 680380)
ANYONE who talks about and openly admits the fact that they're cutting are fishing for compassion...

Not looking for compassion

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It seems to me that if someone was cutting because they were truly depressed, they wouldn't go around talking about it.
No, I'm admitting I have a problem. Writing things down make it more real for me, and idk...this thread was the first I saw about something that has been bugging me lately


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...Especially on JapanForum.
At least it wasn't on the news



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Giving tips? O_o
Nope, not a tip. Sayin what I used...people used different things. I've heard of paper clips, pencils, razors, pen lids, forks, glass etc. I don't really get how that was a tip


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And seriously, what problems do "preps" have-- besides the fact that people won't recognize them for their cuts??
huh?


And like I stated above, trust me, half my friends still don't know I did it. Only 3-4 of my closest friends know about it (in RL) and I just....idk really. I'm so confused, and I know people who are more open about it than me. I have one frenemy who literally will yell across the room "Hey J! I did it again last night...wanna see the marks?"

burkhartdesu 03-02-2009 11:25 PM

Everything you just said re-established everything I said.


Go talk to a counselor.

KikiBunny23 03-02-2009 11:28 PM

NO!

That is one thing I refuse to do...that would mean talking about WHY I did it.And I am not explaining that...I wouldn't be able to. Then they'd tell my mom and I'd get whipped w/ the belt and grounded for life. I'd never be able to sew again cus she'd take away any sharp objects

burkhartdesu 03-02-2009 11:47 PM

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Originally Posted by KikiBunny23 (Post 680394)
NO!

That is one thing I refuse to do...that would mean talking about WHY I did it.And I am not explaining that...I wouldn't be able to. Then they'd tell my mom and I'd get whipped w/ the belt and grounded for life. I'd never be able to sew again cus she'd take away any sharp objects

:pinkcry: Well then quit complaining.

You obviously have some issues you're dieing to tell people about.

Go to a professional... JapanForum isn't the place to talk about the woes in your life.

VampireGirl1314 03-02-2009 11:51 PM

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Originally Posted by KikiBunny23 (Post 680394)
NO!

That is one thing I refuse to do...that would mean talking about WHY I did it.And I am not explaining that...I wouldn't be able to. Then they'd tell my mom and I'd get whipped w/ the belt and grounded for life. I'd never be able to sew again cus she'd take away any sharp objects

aw, are you still worried about you know what?;)

KikiBunny23 03-02-2009 11:54 PM

I ain't complainin...I was explainin why I said what I said and then explain why I didn't want to go see anyone professional. And you wanna know what? I'd rather die than 'be dying to tell everyone my problems'

Sis::I have a LOT of issues at the moment...I would explain but momma is goin crazy at the moment.
And if you're talkin bout Wil & Ty, I've got that solved...but I gotta reject this other dude who I'd rather stay friends w/


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