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09-28-2008, 11:28 PM

Ask yourself why he got with you if he thinks your looking slutty? (he think your easy to get into bed or something?) That kinda guy would never be long term material anyway.

In general I would consider compromises which would keep both us happy. But as for one sided changes just because she disagreed, I would not even consider.
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Ask yourself why he got with you if he thinks your looking slutty? (he think your easy to get into bed or something?) That kinda guy would never be long term material anyway.

In general I would consider compromises which would keep both us happy. But as for one sided changes just because she disagreed, I would not even consider.
If i read something like this i would think the same thing as you do..
But we were together for 4 months. after 3 months he became very possessif..
He said things like: later when we're married, you wont go to work. But you have to stay home and be a good housewife.. and that sort of things. I was like WTH? youre crazy? Im working me ass of to have a good carreer..


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If i read something like this i would think the same thing as you do..
But we were together for 4 months. after 3 months he became very possessif..
He said things like: later when we're married, you wont go to work. But you have to stay home and be a good housewife.. and that sort of things. I was like WTH? youre crazy? Im working me ass of to have a good carreer..
He's not in charge of your future.


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09-29-2008, 12:12 AM

i'd be wary of that guy...especially over what he had told you


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He's not in charge of your future.
yeah i know.. and thats the reason why i broke up with him


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yeah i know.. and thats the reason why i broke up with him
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09-29-2008, 03:16 AM

i would have slapped his face off! =O


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09-29-2008, 09:33 AM

He so doesn't deserve nor accept you for the way you are and choose to be girl!

Man this kinda thing annoys the crap outta me in men, it really does!

Don't ever ever ever EVER change yourself for a guy, EVER! ALWAYS BE YOURSELF!

And if he just can't see that for himself, then that's his twisted problem and NOT yours

You can do much better than that for yourself girl, I just know you can!
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09-29-2008, 10:50 AM

I wouldn't change a thing about MY girl..

she's super foxy, funny, and a nice person to boot

when we go out...she is alway's the fittest girl in the room...and i like that...

also she looks SO hot wearing trainers....

as for your guy...sounds like he is feeling insecure...perhaps adress this issue...and he wont mind how you dress :P
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09-29-2008, 05:59 PM

No freaking way in hell would I stop wearing heels just because my boyfriend doesn't like them. It'd just be silly of him to get mad over it.


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