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Originally Posted by Kajitsu (Post 645109)

This is a seriously messed-up thread.
All I see is a bunch of people trying to prove each other wrong.
You have ~20 minutes to prove me otherwise. (I'll be asleep after that, whether I like it or not.)

Dude. Have you ever, you know, been on the internet before?

My mom says I'm too young to know what love is
U_U
I think it is very possible for young people to love.
I've seen proof

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Originally Posted by theAlphaDuck (Post 645103)

innocence is a virtue...

that once lost....is well...lost...

our 14 yr old friend has just that.....

she loves him...and doesnt even for a moment stop to think that a hormonally charged 14yr old boy is gonna be chasing anyything that moves.....

so no one tell her...ooops

Ha. If you're talking about me well... What an idiot you are. I'll have you know that, first of all, my boyfriend is not fourteen, he's sixteen. And second of all, he won't "chase anything that moves" because he's not like that. O rly? Ya rly. He shares the same feelings as me, if not more so.

Listen, you guys, I don't know what came over me when I posted that. I was so angry when I saw all the other posts saying that young people couldn't love, I went out of my way and posted that. Now I remember why I never talk about my personal life on the Internet.

Maybe someday I will look back at myself and say that I was an idiot. I won't deny that I acted like one just now with posting such a personal topic. But please, lay off the insults. I really don't appreciate it.

Y'all noticed that every high school couple says "we've been through so much together"?

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Originally Posted by Keaton421 (Post 645119)

Y'all noticed that every high school couple says "we've been through so much together"?

People in relationships usually DO go through a lot of things together.
Don't just pick on the high school couples

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Originally Posted by catijoy (Post 645113)

Yeah, I had a 14 year old girlfriend at 16 too. Both of us talked the same way you do now... until the day we broke up.

I don't particularly care about what you do, nor do I feel that anything I write will have a measurable impact on you, so I'll forgo writing a detailed treatise and simply state that you're young, you're naive, feelings come and go, try not to get too happy or too depressed at any one time.

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Originally Posted by catijoy (Post 645113)

Ha. If you're talking about me well... What an idiot you are. I'll have you know that, first of all, my boyfriend is not fourteen, he's sixteen. And second of all, he won't "chase anything that moves" because he's not like that. O rly? Ya rly. He shares the same feelings as me, if not more so.

Listen, you guys, I don't know what came over me when I posted that. I was so angry when I saw all the other posts saying that young people couldn't love, I went out of my way and posted that. Now I remember why I never talk about my personal life on the Internet.

Maybe someday I will look back at myself and say that I was an idiot. I won't deny that I acted like one just now with posting such a personal topic. But please, lay off the insults. I really don't appreciate it.

You've been dating, over the internet, for two years.

How exactly do you know he's not cheating on you? "Because I trust him, and he's not that kind of person" right?

Wrong answer.

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People in relationships usually DO go through a lot of things together.
Don't just pick on the high school couples

High school students don't go through much relationship wise apart from hormones changing and then suddenly seeing they don't fancy that person anymore.

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This is a seriously messed-up thread.
All I see is a bunch of people trying to prove each other wrong.
You have ~20 minutes to prove me otherwise. (I'll be asleep after that, whether I like it or not.)

Have you no understanding of a discussion?

God help the world if today's youngsters approach discussion this way.

Also, forgive me if I don't weep to "prove you wrong", since you have no proof to prove me wrong either.

Oh, fuck it. You know what? I'm done. This is stupid. Who are you (and by you I mean anybody who's judging me) to be able to give your smartass, matter of fact opinions about somebody else's relationship? No one should judge anybody else's relationship based on their age or any other unimportant factor. It's their business, and no one else's. And no one should generalize all relationships like that. It's unfair.

Oh, but if it's their business, why are they posting about it on the Internet?

Well, I already stated in another post why I posted mine. I was just so angry at the people who were saying that young love isn't real that I snapped and posted that without thinking. I was acting like a typical fourteen year old. (Believe me, I try not to do this too often.) As for anybody else, I don't know.

I AM SORRY. I'M SORRY THAT I POSTED THAT STUPID POST TALKING ABOUT MY BOYFRIEND. I'LL NEVER DO IT AGAIN. LAY OFF THE FUCKING INSULTS.

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Originally Posted by VitalStatistic (Post 645121)

People in relationships usually DO go through a lot of things together.
Don't just pick on the high school couples

Yeah the moving in together and splitting the bills and deciding who cooks and who cleans and what to do if one of them lose their job or if he has a cat and she has a dog and...

sorry, I couldn't resist...

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Oh, fuck it. You know what? I'm done. This is stupid. Who are you to be able to give your smartass, matter of fact opinions about somebody else's relationship? No one should judge anybody else's relationship based on their age or any other unimportant factor. It's their business, and no one else's.

Why, I'm some guy over the internet. Nice to meet you.

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Oh, but if it's their business, why are they posting about it on the Internet?

Well, I already stated in another post why I posted mine. I was just so angry at the people who were saying that young love isn't real that I snapped and posted that without thinking. I was acting like a typical fourteen year old. (Believe me, I try not to do this too often.) As for anybody else, I don't know.

Why are you backing down? I mean, if you feel that you're right, then you should stand up and tell your own story and try and persuade us. Who gives a shit what others say?

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I AM SORRY. I'M SORRY THAT I POSTED THAT STUPID POST TALKING ABOUT MY BOYFRIEND. I'LL NEVER DO IT AGAIN. LAY OFF THE FUCKING INSULTS.

Look, here's a bit of advice.

Don't take anything you hear on the internet to heart. If you like this guy, then fair enough.

We don't agree. So we said our thoughts. And they were thoughts, we didn't insult you. Now, if I called you a "Fucking bitch" then I'd understand. However we didn't. So don't get so stressed out.