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SleepAddict 12-16-2009 12:54 AM

There really isn't a hell of alot you can do. You can't force this person to love you. My suggestion is to remain this persons freind and find someone else.

IamKira 12-16-2009 01:41 AM

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Originally Posted by JoshAussie (Post 790061)
"IamKire: Force them into submission and fucking rape them till they learn to like it."

i believe i am being misquoted here.. i never said rape them until they like it.. i said you need to advance on them and exert yourself (make it known how good of a mate you would be) until the potential mate ends his/ her embargo on you

rape would only work in a 2 player situation where govt does not hold strong influence

Salvanas 12-16-2009 01:44 AM

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Originally Posted by IamKira (Post 790092)
i believe i am being misquoted here.. i never said rape them until they like it.. i said you need to advance on them and exert yourself (make it known how good of a mate you would be) until the potential mate ends his/ her embargo on you

rape would only work in a 2 player situation where govt does not hold strong influence

Although as humans we are animalistic, we are not such a savage race.

You will make a bad husband and bad boyfriend. Don't take a girlfriend, for the safety of her life.

Or if she has any relatives, male ones, your safety.

SleepAddict 12-16-2009 01:44 AM

I can't say i agree with that you can only prove yourself to a point before you just start looking pathetic. At that point your lucky if that person doesn't avoid you completly.

WhoIsDaffy 12-16-2009 10:52 AM

Its easy, though not to say simples.

from the very limited information i have on your situation,

I would recomend a classic "take away" manouver.

be sure you are cool, funny, interesting etc. around her
but start to keep your distance.

we always want what we cannot have nes paux?

If you like, pm me or post some more details here,
and I will happily give you a definite action plan, that works.
I'm a wise old dog when it comes to these things

I've won every heart i've wanted, and a fair few i havn't

either way, good luck dude, though you shouldnt need it.

finally i will end on some advice that was given to me by a wise old goat when i was but a wee teenage whipper-snapper
"Love yourself, when you Love yourself they will come after you, you will have to beat them off with a sh1tty stick"

as true today as it was back then

nipponjindee 12-16-2009 06:05 PM

just go for it...
 
well since ur d man.. its not a big problem if d girl u love doesn't love you back as long as you do your best to get that girl u like... go for it!

minimin 12-16-2009 06:36 PM

I think you should try for her affections a few more times, but if you keep getting rejected, i urge you to try for someone new even if its hard. You can't keep chasing fruitless endeavors.

duo797 12-16-2009 08:26 PM

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Originally Posted by IamKira (Post 790042)
oh.., i think i get it.. you live too far away from him/ her
because otherwise it's easy to bombard someone with advances until they give in

Or you can bombard them with advances until you drive them away from yourself. One or the other thing will happen. Persistence doesn't always work, sometimes you need luck.

xYinniex 12-16-2009 10:14 PM

isit unrequited or did she dump you?

NanteNa 12-17-2009 12:28 AM

Okay, guys. Here I'm referring to IAmKira, JoshAussie and ozkai.-
If you cannot comment to a thread properly, please don't comment at all. This whole 'making fun of everything' is getting INCREDIBLY annoying. This guy is looking for help - not a stand-up session by insensitive _____s.

And to the founder of this thread - I'm sorry on their behalf. -_-''
If u need someone to talk to, you can PM me. ^^v I know what it's like.. kinda.. Rejection or just knowing that it aint gonna work - well, it just sucks.


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