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The teenagers of today... *shakes head in dissapointment* |
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What a statement to say many women are whores. what does that make the men that use them? What do you call a man who sleeps around? Maybe your mother needed friendship? |
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Personally, I think being 13 or 14 is too young to be involved in that tye of behavior to begin with. Neither party is emtionally mature enough to be involved in such activity or to fully realize the ramifications of thier actions.
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I disagree, the maturity depends entirely on the individual and not on their age. |
it is illegal to have sex with someone under the age of 16.
Too many children are being born to teenage schoolgirls. who picks up the tab and responsibility? |
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Looks are not everything. |
Uhm, all my boyfriends have actually been taller than me, except for one. So obviously I'm able to ignore my physical attractions for the sake of personality.
The height of someone makes such a little difference I frankly don't care in the grand scheme of things, but if I had the opportunity to make a perfect human male, I'd make him shorter than me, that's all I'm sayin'. |
o.k here's another.i'm not saying guys don't do it,say your'e out with a girl and all she can do is check-out the other guys.:D
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While there may be some truth to the idea that maturity isn't a matter of age, experiance is. Folks between 13 and 14 have alot of emotional instability because of hormonal changes they are undergoing. Not to mention they have barely started life and lack enough experiance to navigate such emotional situations.
I will agree that there can be exceptions to this, but those are exceptions, not the rule. |
what do girls think about compliments
I'm wondering what Japanese girls do think about men walking up to them and start making compliments.
e.g. "your eyese are beautiful" and other dull things. Aren't these actually boring? Also I would like to know J-girls opinion about making eye contact. I heard girls in Japan are shy. Hence there is no real eye contact so men would never know the "trigger" if a J-girls is fancying them... Also, do girls think weird if men walk up to them on an e.g. underground train or library etc. Here majority of girls are only "accepting" men's approach in clubs/bars... during the routine of everyday life they would regard any men walking up to them as weird. How is this with J-girls? happy new year to all of you! :) |
Japanese girls are all different, some of them will think it's weird, others won't. They are individuals and they will all have different opinions.
'Girls in Japan are shy' - lol no. Some girls may be shy, and it's traditional to be humble about yourself but that doesn't mean that all Japanese girls are the same and will react in the same way. I would personally find it weird if some randomer came up to me and told me I had 'beautiful eyes,' as would most of the girls I know. I'd find that weird in any setting, but that's just my individual taste. |
no offense here, but are you actually japanese? :)
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No.
If you are interested in what Japanese girls have to say, the answer will be as open and varied as if you asked all the females on JF their opinions on it, Japanese or not. |
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In England, Japan, America or I'd guess most places in the modern world if you told a random girl "your eyes are beautiful" or held eye contact for more than a fleeting second with someone other than your other half in a serious moment then you are a creep. Watch people around you, try hold eye contact with someone for more than 2seconds, they will look away and look a little freaked. Harsh but true. Social situations are tricky but there are certain things that you obviously never do. |
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Theory: As a Japanese born and raised girl, I'd probably be a bit weirded out to know that people actually find themselves 'fascinated' by my country, my mere Japanese-ness and general stereotypical 'Japanese' things like anime, manga and kanji. AND I'd be even more scared if I were to find out that guys actually ask random girls.. on a forum called JapanForum.. about how to pick up Japanese girls in ways most efficient. No offense here, of course :) |
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Okay, another question to the ladies here... :-) Imagine you're at a party.. there is a guy who is desperately trying to be the center of the party, loud, making jokes, getting the attention. Do you think is this attractive to ladies? Or is it pathetic? |
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Guess that means no more parties for me. :D
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Maybe you just go to lame parties with weirdos? xD
Hah I jest. Does sound a bit weird though. Depends how you are putting it, you say the guy is desperate for the attention, maybe that's just your view and he's actually just an outgoing guy. *shrug* |
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Obvious attention seeking is bad however it is done, but these days it seems to be the sulky, overly emotional, "help my tortured sole I am so depressed" types who come across as more pathetic to me. Loud b$'ers are annoying their own way, but at least you can have fun running circles around their flawed announcements until they fluster about with petty insults and show their pathetic side nice and clearly :mtongue: I think all is good in moderation at a party, talk to a few people, be a tiny bit loud occasionally, seem confident in your self, and join in on things you know about, and ask interesting questions about things you don't. If someone was just a little loud, making a few jokes, especially if he had a few drinks down him I think this is pretty normal. |
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I doubt anyone could feed my ego, I allready feel like I'm God's gift to the planet. ;)
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Hi Beauty!
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(I just hope no-one else started it, but I couldn't find one) |
Nice to hear form all the JF Girls. Now I have a question: Why do some girls go for effeminate men? What is the appeal?
In my skinny boy, eyeliner days I gots way more attention than I did in my less effeminate incarnation. :p |
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Until I was about 14,I never thought "I am a boy",I just viewed myself as an individual. I never once or at least rarely thought about my gender. The biggest problem society has,and I thought this was a West-only problem,is that men and women are still seperate. The opposite sex has maybe different interests,different hair,different body but that's all.
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Exactly. The girls knew I was a boy, they weren't looking for a girl to date. I just had some strange seperate quality that attracted them :D
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Your simplification is as erroneuous as Hitler's statement that Jews were responsible for economical issues in pre WWII Germany.
You have got some serious reading or hands-on-experience activities to do. |
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