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you didnt get my vibe but that's ok. You can't put both sexes into one bag due to fundamental mental or psychological differences. simply, we have a completely opposite mind setup. which by no means is a bad thing. Quite the contrary. It also has nothing to do with equality of sexes.
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I'm male, both biologically and "genderwise" and not afraid to let anyone know either. ;)
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I agree, the sexes are not created equal. The male is meant to be the leader and protector of the female sex for females are not built like men. This does not upset me but lets me know that men in the world need to take back leadership roles. I will stop ranting now. Anymore questions on the roles of man and woman. |
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Exactly. I need to however point out that females tend to be stronger mentally and can endure more (including physical pain). Women have also stronger social skills, and it is all related to their role as mothers. Women easier express what they feel thus release all the tension, reset and go further.
Men on the other hand suffer from testosterone drama, which affects many aspects of our lives, especially during the puberty disaster. However, because we are less concerned and involved emotionally, we do not panic and make decisions based on facts, which (in some cases) makes men better on-the-spot decision makers. No sex is better, nor equal. If you read deeper and search through psychologigy related publications you will find out that sexes are not really that compatible. |
Offtopic:As stated above, we are equal, but not the same.
Ontopic: Why do girls think those big fake eyelashes or blackened to black hole dark and stretched as far as possible are something attractive? Tbh, I hate that, and same for all my friends (not even one exception from the male side)... |
I've never been one for that myself, or any of my girlfriends come to think of it. Its too much effort methinks.
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Okay girls, what part of the opposite sex do you find most appealing? I am talking looks wise Re: Eyes, smile etc
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Yeah the whole tongue thing. It's like a little too eager, I can see how that's a Major turn off. Personally I like taking it slow, being responsive to the woman. Not just going straight for the tonsil assault. |
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As in a lot taller than you, or just not really short? |
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Veiny arms as in the "I'm your average thin guy with really low BF%" or "I'm really vascular since I work out a lot" or maybe "High blood pressure, BF% below 7% and extreeeeeme mass. Mr.Olympia, here I come!" type of guy?:mtongue: I've always wondered something about the height thing. I think I'm kinda tall (6' 3½"), but I still prefer short girls. Do you think it's weird to see guys of my height or taller with below average height girls? |
I am suuuuper short...like barely 5'1" and the shortest I like is 5' 10, so no I don't think it is weird to see tall guys with short girls. By nice jaw I mean any kind of definition. I like when a guy clenches his jaw and you can see the movement. As far as arms, I mean bc they use them... I don't like super skinny or feminine guys. I mean.. not body builder... eww but defined muscle is good. That being said, I have dated chubby short guys and scrawny tall guys and super muscular guys, but no feminine guys.
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I see. Well, to me it seems a lot of tall guys date short girls, while average height guys date average height girls. It doesn't make sense! xD
I thought most girls would be grossed out by seeing the jaw muscles move, but I guess I could be wrong. I fail to see what's to like about it, but.. yeah.. Everyone's entitled to their opinion! Now, this is where I think most girls (and guys as well) get confused about how muscles work. The way muscles look after any kind of work is caused by genetics and nothing else. It doesn't matter if you lift stuff at the gym or anywhere else. Also, not every bodybuilder looks like Jay Cutler, Ronnie Coleman, Lee Priest etc. Very few do, actually. As a matter of fact, every person who goes to the gym to get bigger is a bodybuilder on a hobby, amateur or professional level. And defined muscle is just a matter of having a low BF%. :mtongue: |
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What do I find attractive in guys at first glance, hmmm, good question. Assuming they're not looking at me or specifically smiling.
General posture. You'll get my attention with an upright but not dominant stance more than a round-shoulder sloper or an alpha male chest-thrust and arm swagger. General appearance; is he scruffy, tidy or quite what? Cheap I will go for but never dirty, careless or inappropriate. Butt. Not gonna lie, I like my men to have a nice butt. Other things... Neck line. Forearms. Hard to define, it's not a muscle thing but an aesthetic thing. Does it make a beautiful line or not? Lips, although mouth kind of lumps in with eyes for me. I generally note more about their expressiveness than shape or colour or anything specifically physical. |
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Also, I like guys that aren't too skinny but aren't chubby/fat either. Like not too muscley either. Normal (like no super abs. that's for the posters!) |
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After that, I am another one of those indescriminate women who just look at the whole picture (posture, demeanor, dress, expressions, etc.) and take it from there. Though when I was a swimming and diving judge, the first thing I noticed was those shoulders flexing in front of me. |
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Good responses ladies. It seems that eyes play an important factor in attraction.
Next question: Would you date your best friend? Or do you think it would ruin a perfect friendship? |
C-O-N-F-U-S-I-N-G!!!!!!:confused: :eek:
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I personally have dated my best friend ages ago because he admitted that he liked me.. but I didn't end up falling for him in the end so it was left at that. we're still friends up to now but after the short stint we had we no longer kept the best friend thing.. I think most of the time stuff like boy and girl being best friends is just a front. one of them likes the other. :p
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In a guy, I look at the whole face, mostly smile or eyes. and then if they can converse and make me laugh. but I always wait until he likes me first or expresses that he does. I never make the first move or confession..
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But still, from like to love there is a little step, and not everyone makes that step, so maybe it's a front for some, but not for all. |
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Completely agree with you. Having been "one of the guys" ever since I can remember I tend to become good friends with men where there is nothing more than that in involved. And that tendency of women to suspect otherwise is why I have only a very few chosen female friends - they know better than to build their own definitions of other people's relationships. |
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I don't know why, but having girls for friends wont do any good for me right now.
Cause they look at my looks(attractive or not), making me nervous as hell, and sometime they smile... maybe because i'm single and worried if girls make move on me(fall for me, because i choose her *type* ) I used to have girlsfriends( ye just friend), since i had realationship. It was easy to talk to them, cause i only have *my girl* on my mind. But now i'm single and vulnerable to attractive girls...haha :P OK girls i have important question for all of you... ok i find this girl really attractive she is shy,polite,logically person, and not straightforward. She is someone who will apologized for something small. She want someone who caring,honest and wanting slow relationship( cheek kiss is like sex for her) So HOW DO I CONVINCE HER ?..THAT I AM THE ONE SHE LOOKING FOR?? Anyhow i know seriously i can take care of her, if i meeting her i can convince her and doesn't have to ask anyone for advices. BUT we never meet though, because it's online dating ...so give me some advice what i should write..!!.. i already wrote 4421 words about ME and about *if she my gf* stuff ..without promising.. she is busy with her life...but when she check it ..i want to impress her ... |
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It still applies for me. My 2 best friends are male. They understand me better than anyone and we can (and do) talk about everything. The time spent with one of them does have an unexpected down side though. When we are in public together, we get along so well and even resemble each other so much that strangers think we are either a couple or related. Sometimes that isn't a good for a wingman ;) but he makes it work anyway. |
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