If one's thinking is as limited as to only consider what we are discussing, that would be shallow. But for purposes of discussion, this limitation is succinct and on topic (for once!), not shallow.

But I completely agree that it is still all up to skill, even when the primary issue is size and fit,

quite honestly--if women are concerned about the size then how many will they try before being satisfied.


I despise this way of thinking.

As many as it takes I guess, which would say a lot about their character. But I really don't think most women are size queens; they'd be miserable if they were. Most guys are average. Hence: average. lol

I don't think that's the implication, so to speak. Judging from what the others have said women would be willing to overlook a smaller size if other factors were good . . . if a guy was attractive, kind, 'talented' in that area then size wouldn't be a huge issue. It's just a bonus if a guy is larger. So it's not so much a case of women trying out as many as possible until they find the 'right' size . . .

Ah, of course, I may have misunderstood what has been said. If that's the case then yes, you may have a point . . . but I'm going to go with the more optimistic interpretation until someone says 'no, you're wrong', lol.

Seriously, depending on the position, "average" can seriously hurt. Or maybe I`m below average down there?

I find the very idea of something huge going in there flat out terrifying. I think I would cringe and run.
But, well, I never looked into guys for their size or prowess in bed. To be quite honest, I find the idea that a guy is great in bed / has great technique, etc, a complete turn off. I avoided those types of guys like the plague. Great in bed = lots of experience = slept with lots of women. Nope, not my thing.

All but two of the guys I have been with were virgins, and the other two had only been with one other woman. My husband was a virgin. :mtongue: If he`d been some master between the sheets, I highly doubt we`d have ever even dated.

Jeezus, I'm not saying I'm going to fuck every guy I meet until I find the one with the biggest dick. BUT of all the men I've been with, my best sexual experiences have been with the ones packing up big. I'm not saying size is all that matters, but it does matter. To me anyway, it's what experience has taught me. I'm not saying it's a universal truth or anything, if other women don't think size is an issue then good for them.

I was gonna say the exact same thing. I'm 20 and I've only had sex with my one and only (soon to be ex) boyfriend. And yeah, it hurts D: He's younger than me so we've had sex quite a bit and while it seems to hurt less over time, it's a far cry from feeling good. I mean, it hurts to pee and walk afterward. He's not "huge" either (like 5-6 inches-- I'm not gonna measure the damn thing :mtongue: ) I feel fortunate he's inexperienced (that is, super quick). Yeeeaaaah, a smaller guy sounds nice. ;) And I also agree with you on liking guys who are more innocent. (I hope that doesn't sound creepy...)

I find it amuseing that a larger % of women seem to find the "experianced" guy a turn off. Honestly, if guys knew that, there would be so much less "locker room" talk back in highschool. :o I mean really, who needed the drama anyway? :rolleyes:

There is definitely such a thing as too long or too big. It's a major burden for some men...
I'll try to leave it at that...

And thats the point^^ where do you guys think is all that Drama about size and experience coming from?

Did we gave ourself all that Drama just for the fun? Not at all^^ so there must be some truth behind it ;) and more then just that!

but also this phenomena is only coming from the Western Society.. Asian couldn't care less about it.