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Almazing1000 12-23-2008 04:17 PM

I was in a long distance relationship, but it kinda worked out because she was moving to the same college, it was only for the summer, and she only lived like 30 minutes away, which isn't much when you have a car.

Ronin4hire 12-23-2008 04:26 PM

My opinion on long distance relationships?

They're difficult but if you're smart about it they can work out eventually.

Aniki 12-23-2008 04:46 PM

I'd say it isn't much of a relationship if you can't really see or talk with your partner

bELyVIS 12-23-2008 05:11 PM

I met my wife just before I moved back to the US. We went out a few times as friends (I was seeing a couple of girls at that time) but not romantically. After I left, she was the only one I found that I could trust and she and I talked often and e-mailed every day. We became great friends and started having feelings for each other. I went back to see her after a year and we fell in love and got married (on paper for the visa paperwork to start. Our traditional ceremony will be at Himeji castle in April when the Sakura are blooming). I think it is difficult to have a LDR if you met, but not impossible if both want to work on it. If you haven't met or never plan to it is impossible.

Yuna7780 12-23-2008 05:13 PM

It hardly works. I don't think it's a great idea. I agree with you, Aniki.

Keaton421 12-23-2008 05:19 PM

Yes, they can work. Mine's great but the distance part is coming to a close, thank god. We're both at our wits' end. We've met 4 times, chat for a long time every day, voice, webcam, all that jazz.

I strongly advise not going into one unless A) You know the person's the one, and B) You know you're both strong enough to handle the physical and mental needs you sometimes won't be able to fulfill

SHAD0W 12-23-2008 05:36 PM

in other words, subscribe to a porn site, right keaton? :p

MMM 12-23-2008 05:44 PM

I have combined all seven threads on the topic of long distance relationships.

Keaton421 12-23-2008 05:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SHAD0W (Post 650012)
in other words, subscribe to a porn site, right keaton? :p

Oh no no - we share "pictures" and webcam ;)

Miyavifan 12-24-2008 12:40 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Keaton421 (Post 649990)

I strongly advise not going into one unless A) You know the person's the one, and B) You know you're both strong enough to handle the physical and mental needs you sometimes won't be able to fulfill

I have a question. What if you and the person you're with don't choose to have a long distance relationship, but it happens because one of the people goes off to be in the military?

(anyone's free to answer this)


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