JapanForum.com  


Reply
 
LinkBack Thread Tools
(#1 (permalink))
Old
nobora's Avatar
nobora (Offline)
Fan Ichigou
 
Posts: 1,665
Join Date: Dec 2008
Location: Neverland
Mother's Day in Japan - 05-08-2010, 06:44 PM

How is mothers day celebrated in japan and how do you plan to celebrate it?
Reply With Quote
(#2 (permalink))
Old
Caerula's Avatar
Caerula (Offline)
JF Regular
 
Posts: 74
Join Date: May 2010
Location: Germany, near Cologne
05-08-2010, 07:36 PM

For all I know, they celebrate it like sons and daughters in other countries. They present their mothers flowers - red pinks for example - with an „okaasan arigatou". Some pamper their mothers in cleaning the whole house. I also red, that others give them a back massage or present them a wellness-weekend

Last edited by Caerula : 05-08-2010 at 08:16 PM. Reason: for correction
Reply With Quote
(#3 (permalink))
Old
MMM's Avatar
MMM (Offline)
JF Ossan
 
Posts: 12,200
Join Date: Jun 2007
05-09-2010, 12:35 AM

Quote:
Originally Posted by Caerula View Post
For all I know, they celebrate it like sons and daughters in other countries. They present their mothers flowers - red pinks for example - with an „okaasan arigatou". Some pamper their mothers in cleaning the whole house. I also red, that others give them a back massage or present them a wellness-weekend
I would like you to cite your sources about cleaning the house and giving your mother a massage.
Reply With Quote
(#4 (permalink))
Old
Caerula's Avatar
Caerula (Offline)
JF Regular
 
Posts: 74
Join Date: May 2010
Location: Germany, near Cologne
05-09-2010, 01:17 AM

Surely, but it´s written in german language:

Japan: In Japan wird der Muttertag heutzutage der amerikanischen Tradition folgend am zweiten Sonntag im Mai gefeiert. Wie anderswo auch bekommt die Mama Blumen, meist rote Nelken, mit dem Dankesspruch „okaasan arigatou, Danke Mutter“ geschenkt – aber keine weißen, da die an Bestattungsfeiern erinnern. Manche verwöhnen ihre Mutter, indem sie das Haus säubern, oder mit Massagen, wozu es auch ein Lied gibt, in dem es heißt: „Mutter, lass mich Deinen Rücken massieren“. Andere schenken ihrer Mama gar einen Hotelbesuch inklusive Massage und Schönheitspflege.

source: Wie andere L

Reply With Quote
(#5 (permalink))
Old
xHikariXCutenesSXAmex's Avatar
xHikariXCutenesSXAmex (Offline)
Alice Nine is life
 
Posts: 33
Join Date: Apr 2010
Location: The Valley of the Crescent Moon
05-09-2010, 01:24 AM

I think Mother's day is pretty universal. This is only my opinon, but love for your mother is something everyone shares. Even if they do have to be in your business, tell you what to wear and what to listen to. And still, they cook and clean for us despite our protests and obnoxious rude behavior. Give mothers a hand.


Alice Nine is Life
Reply With Quote
(#6 (permalink))
Old
Caerula's Avatar
Caerula (Offline)
JF Regular
 
Posts: 74
Join Date: May 2010
Location: Germany, near Cologne
05-09-2010, 01:38 AM

Yes, that´s right

@ MMM: here is a translation of the german text:

Following the American tradition the mother´s day in Japan is nowadays celebrated on the second Sunday in May. Like in other countries, the mother receives flowers as a gift, very often red pinks, with an „okaasan arigatou” Thank you, mother – but no white pinks, because they remind of funerals.
Some pamper their mother by cleaning the house or with massages. Therefore exists a song: "Mother, let me massage your back". Others present their mother a visit in a hotel including wellness-programs.
Reply With Quote
(#7 (permalink))
Old
MMM's Avatar
MMM (Offline)
JF Ossan
 
Posts: 12,200
Join Date: Jun 2007
05-09-2010, 01:56 AM

Quote:
Originally Posted by Caerula View Post
Surely, but it´s written in german language:

Japan: In Japan wird der Muttertag heutzutage der amerikanischen Tradition folgend am zweiten Sonntag im Mai gefeiert. Wie anderswo auch bekommt die Mama Blumen, meist rote Nelken, mit dem Dankesspruch „okaasan arigatou, Danke Mutter“ geschenkt – aber keine weißen, da die an Bestattungsfeiern erinnern. Manche verwöhnen ihre Mutter, indem sie das Haus säubern, oder mit Massagen, wozu es auch ein Lied gibt, in dem es heißt: „Mutter, lass mich Deinen Rücken massieren“. Andere schenken ihrer Mama gar einen Hotelbesuch inklusive Massage und Schönheitspflege.

source: Wie andere L

It doesn't say anything about cleaning the house, and I think only a child would give a massage to a mother. Otherwise it would be kind of creepy.
Reply With Quote
(#8 (permalink))
Old
xHikariXCutenesSXAmex's Avatar
xHikariXCutenesSXAmex (Offline)
Alice Nine is life
 
Posts: 33
Join Date: Apr 2010
Location: The Valley of the Crescent Moon
05-09-2010, 02:00 AM

It's your mother dude. It's only creepy if you make it creepy.


Alice Nine is Life
Reply With Quote
(#9 (permalink))
Old
Nyororin's Avatar
Nyororin (Offline)
Mod Extraordinaire
 
Posts: 4,147
Join Date: Nov 2006
Location: あま市
Send a message via MSN to Nyororin Send a message via Yahoo to Nyororin
05-09-2010, 05:29 AM

The massage and housecleaning thing is totally normal for kids. The classic gifts from children are "cleaning" and "massage" tickets - little hand drawn tickets that can be cashed in for cleaning tasks and massages. Also, washing mom in the bath is a pretty common one too.

The massage alone is pretty normal. It`s not even something really big and special once you`re an adult, which is why it sort of fades away as a "gift". Giving mom a back massage is nothing special and can (and is) done pretty any time.

Adults tend to give flowers or other gifts. This year`s gift to mother-in-law is a new TV for her workroom. Last year it was 3 months of cakes. The year before a clock and flowers.


If anyone is trying to find me… Tamyuun on Instagram is probably the easiest.
Reply With Quote
(#10 (permalink))
Old
manganimefan227's Avatar
manganimefan227 (Offline)
星の翼
 
Posts: 986
Join Date: Jul 2007
Location: In a Starry Night with Fire flies
05-09-2010, 12:17 PM

I'm writing her a story, need's more working on!


My Life Sucks- The kids I babysit have drooled, ripped or drawn on all of the cards and put the cars with the little people in the microwave!

I have no Friends- The cats have scratched and destroyed all of the DVDs!

I always owe someone- In fact I put two os in it!

I always ruin my clothes with Bleach!- The show is so dom suspensful I spill my grape soda on them!

But . . .I'll live.
Reply With Quote
Reply


Thread Tools

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

vB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are On




Copyright 2003-2006 Virtual Japan.
Search Engine Friendly URLs by vBSEO 3.0.0 RC6