Breakup Revenge

[SatoshiBM]

Taking revenge after a breakup is a waste of time and energy. It's living in the past. At some point, after you do enough hurtin, you gotta realize that it's all in the past now and move on with your life. Relationships are too trivial a matter to get hung up on them. I don't understand the people who tell me they feel 'social pressure to be in a relationship'. Relationships are not hard, and breakups are not hard, if you are in the correct state of mind. The thing is, there's so many people in the world, chances are great that there is somebody out there better suited for you than your ex. So try to find that person instead of wasting time on planning revenge. Cuz the bottomline is that nobody benefits from revenge. You can go to jail if you do something too extreme, your ex will most likely want to get back at you and it's a vicious circle. Just let it go and move on. In other words, grow up.

[shojogirl]

Originally Posted by HinataUchiha

JULISA, SHUT UP! PEOPLE ARE TRYING TO HAVE A DECENT CONVERSATION HERE!!!!!

........sorry for my inturuption, folks.

sorry everyone. i was jusr joking around. i'll stop.
my sister is mean though


i am sooooooooo sorry

[Wasabista]

Originally Posted by Salvanas

Kudos to you.

You are the epitome of what people should be like. You have gained my respect.

My sediments exactly! When you break up, just walk away. Be grateful it ended early so you couldn't do something disastrous, like get married. As the pirate Bluebeard said, it's a merry life, and a short one.

[ThirdSight]

Revenge is only a word worth using if someone kills a buddy of yours.

Revenge for someone "breaking your heart"?

Just a little gae.

[pumpum]

Originally Posted by ThirdSight

Revenge is only a word worth using if someone kills a buddy of yours.

Revenge for someone "breaking your heart"?

Just a little gae.

whoa iv been through WARS !! lol iv had my clothes torn tv systems pc phones everything smashed cops called , brothers called fathers called and lots and lots of juicy violence etc etc..

lol trust me where i live if u mess with the wrong girl u could end up in some serious pickles lol. My friend is doing life over his ex missus.

[xYinniex]

I did it SATC style.
Told a few friends, and they gossip, it goes around. Now most of my friends don't have a very good impression of him. End of.

Oh, and i turned 1/3 of my group against one girl because it was partly her fault. i didn't really intentionally at first, I kinda had something in my eye in the morning and then someone thought i was upset...but i was kinda too busy to correct her, since that frigging eyelash was kinda bugging me. and then they gossiped and it spread and then obviously people thought she was in the wrong, and i didn't want to help her and correct that i wasn't really that upset.

[ThirdSight]

Originally Posted by pumpum

lol trust me where i live if u mess with the wrong girl u could end up in some serious pickles lol.

It is hard to validate the seriousness of your post with a sentence like this.

Though I do understand; in the dorms I used to live in, shit hit the fan when some guy's girl was going around doing who knows what with who knows who. No one knows much of anything, save for there were some bad times.

[noonboy]

Originally Posted by shojogirl

sorry everyone. i was jusr joking around. i'll stop.
my sister is mean though


i am sooooooooo sorry

but your sister is not mean.

[Ito]

i just got my heartbroken 2 dayes ago. im in holland for him and now he doesnt love me anymore. tomorrow im going home to sweden.
i didnt do any revenge just i said to his mom i dont wanna see him anymore. i left the stuff that i had memories off during my time here for a month.
and i put them near his computer.
revenge seems like not muture thing to do. even though how much it hurts right now.
heres some nice music to you all there that is heartbroken as i am.
YouTube - Joe Hisaishi Live Performance - Ashitaka sekki from Mononoke
YouTube - Dress -BUCK-TICK
hugs ito

[SceptileMaster]

Why do so many people hate their ex-partners? I'm still good friends with my ex-girlfriend. If you have had strong feelings for them in the past then why would you suddenly hate them, unless they did something major to hurt you (and that isn't always the reason for breakup)?