Over all I would have to say if a man has a charming smile and can light up a room with it then it will bring me around. I am a fool for the charming smile of a male. *this is coming from a married woman.* The eyes of a man can also be a great turn on cause you can tell from his eyes if he will open up to you. If he can't mask his emotions well through his eyes then you know he will be passionate when the time comes. What goes along with the charming smile must be that when the male kisses you on the lips he must never seem invading. Me and my friends use to tell one another how much we hated when men stuck their tongues down our throats cause of a gag response. Major turn off. Don't seem desperate for a woman cause they won't remain if you do so.

Funny you have mentioned that. It is amazing how many times I had this issue with girls who did not know how to kiss. It doesn't take much to soften their lips and tell them to relax, but not many girls of the bunch i dealth with were decent kissers from the start. Bloody shame because I love kissing.

I like nice jaws and veiny arms... also height is important to me.

That's interesting because one of my attractions to women are their eyes.

Yeah the whole tongue thing. It's like a little too eager, I can see how that's a Major turn off. Personally I like taking it slow, being responsive to the woman. Not just going straight for the tonsil assault.

I've heard girls mention nice jaws and arms, confused the hell out of an old friend a he was convinced woman only sought one thing :rolleyes:

As in a lot taller than you, or just not really short?

What's a "nice jaw" to you? Wide and super masculine (Clark Kent style), or a smaller and more feminine jaw/chin like Leonardo DiCaprio?

Veiny arms as in the "I'm your average thin guy with really low BF%" or "I'm really vascular since I work out a lot" or maybe "High blood pressure, BF% below 7% and extreeeeeme mass. Mr.Olympia, here I come!" type of guy?:mtongue:

I've always wondered something about the height thing.
I think I'm kinda tall (6' 3½"), but I still prefer short girls. Do you think it's weird to see guys of my height or taller with below average height girls?

I am suuuuper short...like barely 5'1" and the shortest I like is 5' 10, so no I don't think it is weird to see tall guys with short girls. By nice jaw I mean any kind of definition. I like when a guy clenches his jaw and you can see the movement. As far as arms, I mean bc they use them... I don't like super skinny or feminine guys. I mean.. not body builder... eww but defined muscle is good. That being said, I have dated chubby short guys and scrawny tall guys and super muscular guys, but no feminine guys.

I see. Well, to me it seems a lot of tall guys date short girls, while average height guys date average height girls. It doesn't make sense! xD

I thought most girls would be grossed out by seeing the jaw muscles move, but I guess I could be wrong. I fail to see what's to like about it, but.. yeah.. Everyone's entitled to their opinion!

Now, this is where I think most girls (and guys as well) get confused about how muscles work. The way muscles look after any kind of work is caused by genetics and nothing else.
It doesn't matter if you lift stuff at the gym or anywhere else.
Also, not every bodybuilder looks like Jay Cutler, Ronnie Coleman, Lee Priest etc. Very few do, actually.
As a matter of fact, every person who goes to the gym to get bigger is a bodybuilder on a hobby, amateur or professional level.
And defined muscle is just a matter of having a low BF%. :mtongue:

Touché my friend. I guess I don't like big muscles... mainly just broad shoulders and no man boobs.

LOL manboobs.