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Ryzorian 04-13-2011 02:19 AM

This whole thing reminds me of this joke;

Back Dureing the Cold War Era Gorbachev was talking to Reagan at a summit and asked if the US had any spare condoms cause they were out in the USSR. Reagan confirmed that we did and asked Gorbachev what size they needed. Gorbachev replied that they needed them in size between 9 and 12 inches. Reagan contacted the State department and told them to make the delivery with this side note..All the boxes were to be marked "Medium".

bELyVIS 04-13-2011 11:34 PM

You guys crack me up. What does it matter what penis size anyone has? It only matters if you know how to correctly use it.;)

Ryzorian 04-14-2011 01:45 AM

Confucious say "No matter how good your rocket skills are, you will never get to space if rocket can't break orbit"

MMM 04-14-2011 03:16 AM

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Originally Posted by Ryzorian (Post 861315)
Confucious say "No matter how good your rocket skills are, you will never get to space if rocket can't break orbit"

Confucius talked about rockets?

protheus 04-14-2011 07:01 AM

Of course, during the StarWars convention he held a discussion on that domain.

BobbyCooper 04-14-2011 08:51 PM

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Originally Posted by bELyVIS (Post 861309)
You guys crack me up. What does it matter what penis size anyone has? It only matters if you know how to correctly use it.;)

Thats only an excuse^^ you know that ;)

StonerPenguin 04-14-2011 09:16 PM

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Originally Posted by BobbyCooper (Post 861389)
Thats only an excuse^^ you know that ;)

Haha, dude you never make any sense. :D

Also, lol @ dudes and their wee-wee discussions. Also, I have a vagina, and I don't know what "orbit" you guys are talking about "breaking". :confused: Sounds painful :mtongue:

tokusatsufan 04-14-2011 09:31 PM

I don't know either.

RickOShay 04-14-2011 09:47 PM

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Originally Posted by StonerPenguin (Post 861390)
Haha, dude you never make any sense. :D

Also, lol @ dudes and their wee-wee discussions. Also, I have a vagina, and I don't know what "orbit" you guys are talking about "breaking". :confused: Sounds painful :mtongue:

Yeah I am beginning to believe the "issues" we had at the other thread were mostly because of communication problems.

BobbyCooper 04-14-2011 10:18 PM

You might get to know me a little better when I post a little more in the future maybe.. It will probably take a little time since the last thread is still way to fresh.

Ryzorian 04-15-2011 02:41 AM

Oiy...It was a Joke guys..geez. You read far too much into it.

Aniki 04-15-2011 10:50 PM

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Originally Posted by synce (Post 859957)
Are Japanese guys the same "size" as Americans?

Watch a couple dozen American porn and a couple dozen Japanese porn and you'll have your answer.

StonerPenguin 04-15-2011 11:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Aniki (Post 861524)
Watch a couple dozen American porn and a couple dozen Japanese porn and you'll have your answer.

Though, the dudes in American porn don't reflect reality very often. I saw a dude who could suck his own junk without hardly needing to bend...

Nyororin 04-16-2011 12:55 AM

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Originally Posted by Aniki (Post 861524)
Watch a couple dozen American porn and a couple dozen Japanese porn and you'll have your answer.

For some reason western guys seem to get off on seeing girls having massive things shoved into them - or at least porn thinks they do. The guys in porn get there by being huge or unique in some other way...

On the other hand, Japanese guys apparently like to have it seem "normal" - the guy should be as bland and boring as possible. The goal is for the guy to be as unobtrusive as possible, and to be as close to the viewer as possible. So they generally avoid having any abnormally large or unique guys. (Except in porn specifically appealing to that fetish.)

All the guys I`ve seen talking about porn in Japan find the way the guys are "stars" too, and how much they are in the forefront in western porn "creepy".

Ryzorian 04-16-2011 04:06 AM

Besides, what is ment by "Americans"? We have all races and nationalities here, includeing Americans of Japanese decent.

Aniki 04-16-2011 10:23 AM

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Originally Posted by Nyororin (Post 861530)
For some reason western guys seem to get off on seeing girls having massive things shoved into them - or at least porn thinks they do. The guys in porn get there by being huge or unique in some other way...

On the other hand, Japanese guys apparently like to have it seem "normal" - the guy should be as bland and boring as possible. The goal is for the guy to be as unobtrusive as possible, and to be as close to the viewer as possible. So they generally avoid having any abnormally large or unique guys. (Except in porn specifically appealing to that fetish.)

All the guys I`ve seen talking about porn in Japan find the way the guys are "stars" too, and how much they are in the forefront in western porn "creepy".

You sure do know your porn Nyororin.

Nyororin 04-16-2011 11:15 AM

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Originally Posted by Aniki (Post 861555)
You sure do know your porn Nyororin.

I have to admit I have only seen a few in my lifetime...
However, I did a bunch of volunteer counseling / teaching with teenagers. (Think along the lines of hikikomori - just with parents rich enough to pay private teachers so that they didn`t have to leave the house to get by in school...) The level of trust high school boys give when you don`t freak out in disgust when they open a drawer to get a notebook out and... *gasp* there is a DVD or magazine in there they definitely wouldn`t want their mom to see. :mtongue:

So the subject tended to come up, and I answered truthfully pretty much whatever was asked. And took mental note of whatever they said.

Trifectionx 04-18-2011 02:58 AM

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Originally Posted by RealJames (Post 859959)
Apparently Japanese guys are more like bolts and westerners are more like bananas.

lol. just like the japanese to have a smaller, more effecient design

Rinai 04-18-2011 03:30 AM

I like how I see guys having intense discussions on this. Well, I'm pretty sure when people say 'American' they think the typical white person. Just the way it is.

*plooka plooka*

Ryzorian 04-18-2011 04:25 AM

Cept the US is really becomeing the true melting pot of the world these days. By 2050, Whites will just be one of many races.

hitotsz 04-18-2011 05:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Nyororin (Post 859969)
I am a girl, and I have dated American and Japanese men... And am married to a Japanese guy.

I have found that there is really no difference - at least not between white American men and Japanese guys.
Well, white guys tend to be bigger while flaccid.

Condom sizes have a lot more to do with the "condom culture" - if you can call it that. Japan teaches that condoms need to be TIGHT - "use the absolute smallest you can fit into". America tends to lean toward "use the most comfortable, as long as it doesn`t slip off".
I think that this MAY have something to do with the harder / softer thing, but can`t really be for certain. Something in a very tight condom is going to feel harder than something in a larger one.

How many Americans and how many Japnaese did you date?

StonerPenguin 04-18-2011 07:32 PM

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Originally Posted by hitotsz (Post 861854)
How many Americans and how many Japanese did you date?

Don't you think that's a somewhat inappropriate thing to ask? :confused:

Nyororin 04-18-2011 11:27 PM

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Originally Posted by hitotsz (Post 861854)
How many Americans and how many Japnaese did you date?

Err, that isn`t really any of your business, but... I`m not an incredibly private person so I`ll answer anyway.
3 Americans, and 4 Japanese... Not a huge number so obviously I can`t speak for every guy out there.

hitotsz 04-19-2011 01:39 AM

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Originally Posted by Nyororin (Post 861902)
Err, that isn`t really any of your business, but... I`m not an incredibly private person so I`ll answer anyway.
3 Americans, and 4 Japanese... Not a huge number so obviously I can`t speak for every guy out there.

I see. Also you said you were 'a girl' I always got the feeling you were a okaasan, in 30s or 40s. Are you in your 20s?


Also I read somewhere that in Japan Koreans are infamous for asking private questions like what University did you go to etc. Is that true?

Trifectionx 04-19-2011 02:37 AM

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Originally Posted by hitotsz (Post 861915)
I see. Also you said you were 'a girl' I always got the feeling you were a okaasan, in 30s or 40s. Are you in your 20s?


Also I read somewhere that in Japan Koreans are infamous for asking private questions like what University did you go to etc. Is that true?

lmao this guy rox an okaasan or even an obaasan

an o-baaaaaaarrrrrrr-san

StonerPenguin 04-19-2011 03:11 AM

Nyororin has a young son, y'know. She's like in her late 20's - early 30's. (Actually, I know her age since I read her blog ;) I'm stalking your baby boy Miss Nyororin!) Though, asking a lady's age isn't a proper thing to do.

Nyororin 04-19-2011 06:18 AM

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Originally Posted by hitotsz (Post 861915)
I see. Also you said you were 'a girl' I always got the feeling you were a okaasan, in 30s or 40s. Are you in your 20s?

I use the word "girl" as meaning "female". My age, well, StonerPenguin answered that one.

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Also I read somewhere that in Japan Koreans are infamous for asking private questions like what University did you go to etc. Is that true?
I have never heard this... And I don`t think that question is all that personal in Japan. Maybe if someone just walked up out of the blue and asked, but it`s a normal enough topic that no one would think anything of it in normal conversation.

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Nyororin has a young son, y'know. She's like in her late 20's - early 30's. (Actually, I know her age since I read her blog I'm stalking your baby boy Miss Nyororin!) Though, asking a lady's age isn't a proper thing to do.
Really?! Maybe if he had more stalkers I would post more... :D

dogsbody70 04-19-2011 08:08 AM

who asked that ridiculous question.

dogsbody70 04-19-2011 08:36 AM

no the original poster------------and please treat nyrororin with respect she deserves.


some really stupid comments in this ridiculous thread.

hitotsz 04-19-2011 12:15 PM

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Originally Posted by StonerPenguin (Post 861921)
Nyororin has a young son, y'know. She's like in her late 20's - early 30's. (Actually, I know her age since I read her blog ;) I'm stalking your baby boy Miss Nyororin!) Though, asking a lady's age isn't a proper thing to do.

What's her blog address if I may ask?

dogsbody70 04-19-2011 12:16 PM

you have a cheek asking personal questions about nyrorin. where is your respect?

XxBiancaxX 04-19-2011 12:37 PM

Wtf... Eeeeeeeer... i believe that all this "size" thing is based in Stereotypes o____oUu

RobinMask 04-19-2011 12:43 PM

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Originally Posted by dogsbody70 (Post 862046)
you have a cheek asking personal questions about nyrorin. where is your respect?

To be fair this whole thread is about penis sizes . . . when someone comments on what they've seen, I have to ask what then is "too personal"? I mean, sure asking someone how many people they've dated is personal, but in light of the original topic . . . is it really?

dogsbody70 04-19-2011 03:20 PM

well sorry but i think the original question is ridiculous.


not really a suitable subject.


maybe I'm old fashioned but to be bothered about the size of the male nether regions--URGH.


if you love somebody you don't think about things like that.

I think it is intrusive and rude question

surely there are better subjects to discuss on this forum.


more fool those who actually care how a male is hung.

also I have great respect for nyrorin--and feel that some members are way too inquisitive about her.

i do not like to see her name bandied about.

Nyororin 04-19-2011 03:43 PM

I very much appreciate your concern.

I did choose to answer the question with my own experience, so I can`t relaly complain about someone being inquisitive.
I am a fairly open person, so don`t really mind being asked things as long as they`re not insulting. I can see how the question would be pertinent to the discussion - if I had only seen one of each, it would hardly be enough to form a fair opinion.

Anyway though, I have been married for 10 years now, so can`t comment on whether there have been any significant changes in the world over that time.

RealJames 04-19-2011 04:17 PM

about the love thing;
if you're lookin for love then it's destined to fail if genital proportions are a factor...

although, many of us certainly aren't looking for love haha, for many years I picked my women based purely on very superficial and on factors that would no doubt change within years, but who cares when your time-scope is days or weeks at most!

I'm willing to bet that the vast majority of sex on this earth is done between two people who have no love for each other and are in fact more interested in genital proportions than character traits ;)

myk 04-19-2011 04:37 PM

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Originally Posted by RealJames (Post 862116)
about the love thing;
if you're lookin for love then it's destined to fail if genital proportions are a factor...

although, many of us certainly aren't looking for love haha, for many years I picked my women based purely on very superficial and on factors that would no doubt change within years, but who cares when your time-scope is days or weeks at most!

I'm willing to bet that the vast majority of sex on this earth is done between two people who have no love for each other and are in fact more interested in genital proportions than character traits ;)

go tell that to the saints over in the "looks or personality" thread

RobinMask 04-19-2011 04:44 PM

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Originally Posted by myk (Post 862122)
go tell that to the saints over in the "looks or personality" thread

In that thread the empthasis seems to be on long-term relationships, whereas in this thread it's more about the sexual . . . the arguments in either thread can't be applied to the other easily, as they argue different things.

Also I took a quick look at the other thread. The arguments here are valid, the arguments there are valid, and everyone has their own views - Dogs, James, the original poster . . . all unique values and beliefs. No one view is better than another, so why should he - or any of us - go into another thread and by your implication "prove 'em wrong"?

myk 04-19-2011 04:48 PM

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Originally Posted by RobinMask (Post 862124)
In that thread the empthasis seems to be on long-term relationships, whereas in this thread it's more about the sexual . . . the arguments in either thread can't be applied to the other easily, as they argue different things.

Also I took a quick look at the other thread. The arguments here are valid, the arguments there are valid, and everyone has their own views - Dogs, James, the original poster . . . all unique values and beliefs. No one view is better than another, so why should he - or any of us - go into another thread and by your implication "prove 'em wrong"?

maybe i should have loaded that post up with emoticons so as to indicate a joke :) :D :mtongue: :ywave: :o :p ;)

RobinMask 04-19-2011 04:56 PM

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Originally Posted by myk (Post 862125)
maybe i should have loaded that post up with emoticons so as to indicate a joke :) :D :mtongue: :ywave: :o :p ;)

Ah, sorry. Humour doesn't translate too well online, and I can't say I'm perceptive to it at the best of times. No worries in that case, lol.


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