in love with a taken japanese girl..

[Keaton421]

Originally Posted by ZedKnightly

i do know for a fact that they are in a long term relationship (over a year or smething) but then they split up some time this year, then reconciled. thats the only thing ive heard.

Couples that split up and get back together never last. If the problem was big enough to break you up, then it should be too big to allow you to reconcile - unless, of course, you never took your relationship seriously. And no one ever "falls out of love" - one or both partners just quit trying.

Just...ask...her. You can't strategize this. You can't plan this. You'll never know what she'll say or how you'll react. There's no such thing as being "prepared". Do it, or don't.

That strange feeling in your stomach when you think about asking her? That's your body telling you you're doing the right thing. No one ever got that feeling sitting at their computer worrying about girls, especially at age 24

[ZedKnightly]

Originally Posted by superheel

How come we filipinos are so obsessed with Japanese women? Well, it's not bad to have a friendly hang out, atleast make her think that it's just like a casual kind of thing and not something romantic. Instead of taking her out, just talk with her and aske her opinions, so by that, you could start a topic. You can do it pare!

i wouldnt call it obsessed mate. hehhe.
im just attracted to them from the start. (if your here in this forum, who aint)

@keaton
u make it sound like ur so old already mate. ahehhe.
thanks. i guess ur right, i cant prepare for it.

ill try it.

[Keaton421]

Originally Posted by ZedKnightly

@keaton
u make it sound like ur so old already mate. ahehhe.
thanks. i guess ur right, i cant prepare for it.

ill try it.

I'm 21 I just spend the last 19 years of my life chasing skirts and usually succeeding. And my parents taught me a lot about relationships.

[superheel]

Originally Posted by ZedKnightly

im just attracted to them from the start. (if your here in this forum, who aint)

Oh yeah, you're right. LOL.

[ZedKnightly]

Originally Posted by Keaton421

I'm 21 I just spend the last 19 years of my life chasing skirts and usually succeeding. And my parents taught me a lot about relationships.

you were chasing skirts when u were.. gasp... 2..?

wonder baby.
heheh!

so im taking a hellofah advice from someone 3 yrs younger. oh well.
u sound more experienced than me when it comes to asking girls out / confessing to a girl.

my past relationships, those things didnt quite occur so i guess i can say im still a newb on that department. hehe!

[MMM]

Originally Posted by Aniki

Even if two people are perfect for each other, their relationship could easily be broken when an outsider interferes, don't forget this how the art of "womanizing" (I hope this is the correct word I'm using) was invented. There are lots of guys who just won't stop until they have their hands on the "forbidden fruit". And there's nothing chivalrous in that.

If their relationship is easily broken when an outsider interferes, then they ain't perfect for each other.

"Womanizing" is when an man pursues several woman at once or in a row just to put notches in his bedpost.

[ZedKnightly]

my chances are getting slim.
i didnt got the opportunity to talk to her one on one this lunchbreak as she was surrounded by my girl officemates.

my next chance would come after 5:30, before she comes home.
but what if i cant solo her again that time..?

would it take smething away, if i ask her via other means? like company mail or so?
would i sound not sincere?

[MMM]

The opportunity will come. Do it face to face and let us know how it went.

[Keaton421]

There comes a time in every man's life where he has to hear these words:

Don't be a pussy.

No hard feelings, just do what you gotta do, face to face

[ZedKnightly]

Originally Posted by Keaton421

There comes a time in every man's life where he has to hear these words:

Don't be a pussy.

No hard feelings, just do what you gotta do, face to face

its ok..

face to face huh.. thats what i want to. but what if chance dont show later? then id have to wait until tomorrow again and its driving me nuts. lolz.

plus i dont think ill be able to escape office early tomorrow. so nows the only chance.

but i guess i do have to do it face to face.

even though some might hear.